Dating Apps Scams – SCAM OF THE MONTH

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Rose was tired of online dating… and then she met Sam.  They connected on a dating app, but Sam quickly moved the conversation to texts since he hardly used the app.  After a week of banter and flirting, Rose suggested meeting in person.  Unfortunately, Sam worked overseas for the winter.  But, once week two rolled around, Sam proclaimed his love for Rose and promised to meet her in person when he returned in the Spring.  Rose felt that this could finally be the man of her dreams.  Her sister, however, was much more cautious.  When Rose told Sam about her sister’s concerns of them moving too fast, he got very angry.  He felt Rose’s sister was unsupportive and shouldn’t meddle. To calm the situation, Rose agreed to stop sharing as much information about their relationship with her sister.  Now, Sam is having difficulty putting money together for a flight home.  He wants to finally meet Rose in person (hinting that a proposal might be involved).  He’s asked Rose to help with purchasing the tickets, but he doesn’t want her to tell anyone because he’s ashamed that he needs the help.

Did you spot the red flags?
  • Sam proclaimed his love very quickly. Scammers use strong emotions, such as love to have you fall more easily for their tricks, and not second guess their actions.
  • Sam claims he works overseas. Scammers make up similar excuses as to why they can’t meet in person, or video chat. If it’s been a month or two, it may be a suspicious sign if you still haven’t met.
  • Sam asked for money. Never give money to someone you have not met in real life.
What you should know about this scam

Many scammers will try to isolate you from your family and friends.  This makes it easier to manipulate you and places less hurdles in front of them.  Be sure to stay close with people you trust in your life and seek their guidance if you feel hesitant about suspicious messages.

Most dating apps provide in-app messaging.  This helps keep personal information safe and can assist in tracking down a scammer if you fall victim to fraud.  Be wary of tactics pressuring you to take conversations off the app and do not give out personal contact details until after you’ve vetted your match in person.

Always do your research: Search for your new interest on the internet.  Do a reverse image search.  Make sure their story matches up with what you find online.

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